Dicks are just more fun than assholes!

This blog is for dudes who are into dudes but don't obsess about anal sex or embracing the "Big Gay Scene".

Some guys prefer cock2cock action over using another man's ass as a surrogate vagina. This blog is dedicated to uniting men who are same-sex attracted but do not identify with mainstream gay culture.

This blog features pictures collected from the Internet that reflect my personal taste in men and written posts supportive of non penetrative, m2m sexual contact.

I don't believe the words 'discreet' and 'masculine' are dirty words. My sexuality doesn't define me any more than my shoe size.

Definitely NSFW (not safe for work)

22nd September 2014

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A little fur is good

21st September 2014

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21st September 2014

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Maintaining a blog requires a lot of time and energy. Sometimes I just don’t have the time to sit down at WordPress and go through the effort of writing a post and illustrating it with an eye-catching image that won’t get me into trouble for copyright infringement.

I am very passionate about the topics I write about.  I also think ‘guys like us’ need a voice and presence on the Internet to…

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6th September 2014

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What Does It Mean to Be a Man? 80+ Quotes on Men & Manhood →

1st September 2014

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Hooray for testosterone!

24th August 2014

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Gay diversity is like the Village People. You can all wear different stupid outfits as long as you sing the same stupid song.
— Jack Donovan - "Androphilia"

24th August 2014


Derek J’s Upcoming “Masculine VS Feminine” Debate in Atlanta | Cypher Avenue – Urban News. Entertainment. Geek Culture. Discussion. →

Should be interesting. Predictable, but interesting.

24th August 2014

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Weekend dose of testosterone

17th August 2014

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Guys like us

I received a message from a reader this week which reminded me why I spend time, energy and money writing these blogs. 

He essentially identified himself as a straight guy who also has sexual feelings for guys. He has no interest in labels, parades or moving to Vermont to marry another dude. No! Pure and simple, he likes cock and all things masculine


His message confirmed my long held suspicion that there is a multitude of men who feel sexually attracted to other guys in varying degrees but are unwilling to take on the baggage of the ‘gay’ or ‘bi’ label. 

It’s easy to get the idea you’re alone both in your attraction to other men and strong distaste toward mainstream gay culture. The reality is, you’re not alone. No matter how many gay, feminist extremist bloggers try to demonize masculinity and throw around accusations of “internalized homophobia”, there exists a brotherhood among men that sometimes has sexual undertones. That fraternal bond should never be confused with the gender-bending, camp act that is commonplace in mainstream gaydom.

Guys like us probably far outnumber the gay community, we’re just not attention whores who wear our sexuality on our sleeves.

2nd August 2014

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2nd August 2014

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Lovin that Y chromosome!

27th July 2014

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Challenging Stereotypes

It’s rare that I find anything in mainstream gay media to get excited about. If you consider…

It’s rare that I find anything in mainstream gay media to get excited about. If you consider HuffPost’s “Gay Voices” to be mainstream gay media, a recent post gave me a glimmer of hope for a future in which anal sex isn’t assumed to be the norm among same sex attracted men.

The post was titled “8 Things Straight People Get Wrong About Gay Men“.  Occasionally, there are hints that perhaps just…

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27th July 2014

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26th July 2014


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15th July 2014

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Link Love

One of my favorite blogs is Cypher Avenue. It’s a blog that was called “Discreet City” when I first began reading it. The blog is written by and for gay men of color. Though I am not a gay man of color (as far as I can tell from looking in the mirror), I enjoy reading the blog and share many of the opinions expressed on the site. It is especially refreshing when someone besides me makes the…

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