Dicks are just more fun than assholes!

This blog is for dudes who are into dudes but don't obsess about anal sex or embracing the "Big Gay Scene".

Some guys prefer cock2cock action over using another man's ass as a surrogate vagina. This blog is dedicated to uniting men who are same-sex attracted but do not identify with mainstream gay culture.

This blog features pictures collected from the Internet that reflect my personal taste in men and written posts supportive of non penetrative, m2m sexual contact.

I don't believe the words 'discreet' and 'masculine' are dirty words. My sexuality doesn't define me any more than my shoe size.




Definitely NSFW (not safe for work)

2nd August 2014

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2nd August 2014

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Lovin that Y chromosome!

27th July 2014

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Challenging Stereotypes

It’s rare that I find anything in mainstream gay media to get excited about. If you consider…

It’s rare that I find anything in mainstream gay media to get excited about. If you consider HuffPost’s “Gay Voices” to be mainstream gay media, a recent post gave me a glimmer of hope for a future in which anal sex isn’t assumed to be the norm among same sex attracted men.

The post was titled “8 Things Straight People Get Wrong About Gay Men“.  Occasionally, there are hints that perhaps just…

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27th July 2014

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26th July 2014

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15th July 2014

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Link Love

One of my favorite blogs is Cypher Avenue. It’s a blog that was called “Discreet City” when I first began reading it. The blog is written by and for gay men of color. Though I am not a gay man of color (as far as I can tell from looking in the mirror), I enjoy reading the blog and share many of the opinions expressed on the site. It is especially refreshing when someone besides me makes the…

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13th July 2014

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My Androphile’s Creed

My Androphile’s Creed

Like most same sex attracted men, I struggle to fit in. I don’t fit in straight culture and I don’t fit in gay culture. My struggle is for my own identity. I’m not some depraved half man/half woman. I’m not obsessed with anal sex and the worn out question “are you a top or a bottom?”. (I am neither -I find anal sex repulsive) I am also not amused when some limber-dick messages me on Scruff or…

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12th July 2014

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12th July 2014

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12th July 2014

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7th July 2014

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Muscle Monday

7th July 2014

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Muscle Monday

7th July 2014

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Muscle Monday

7th July 2014

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Muscle Monday

29th June 2014

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He’s Just Not That Into You

He’s Just Not That Into You

Why are the words discreet, straight acting and masc4masc so popular on gay social networking apps and websites? Are people who use those words really self-hating queers who need to learn to accept who they are inside or is there something less sinister going on here?

I believe the reason for the popularity of the words in my first question is not widespread self-hatred but strong evidence of the…

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